We’ve been hearing it for over a year now, “Stay 6 feet apart” but not all people respect those words. It’s a constant battle to keep others from coming up close behind me at a register in any store these days; it’s aggravating. I admit, when those rules (for social distancing) were implemented in public, I rejoiced at the fact no one will be breathing down my neck in a line; I want my personal space along with ample time to pay for my purchases. I’m tired of people ‘Not’ respecting the basic distance rules that were put in place during this pandemic. My health has been compromised, by no fault of my own, so I don’t want to take any unnecessary chances. Yet someone in line at the grocers the other day, decided to ignore the distance signs and come right up to the belt while I was still putting my items on it. As I looked at this person, I was asked “what the h*## is your problem?” In total disbelief, I shook my head, looked at the checker and proceeded to go bag my items; the checker asked the gentleman to wait with his items until I was finished…but he went on a verbal rampage and retrieved his stuff while proceeding to another line. I don’t understand why people are so impatient these days, not-to-mention just plain rude! We all deserve some respect when it comes to our personal space, and this isn’t the first time I’ve written about this subject.
No one enjoys being crowded, unless you’re at an event such as a concert…then you make a choice to be in close proximities with others; and that’s okay, it’s your choice. However, with health issues continuing to be at the forefront of conversations every day, being guarded in public is a must. I know there are people that refuse to continue social distancing, and while I understand that, there is also the right (for those wanting to remain distant) to have their own personal space respected. With many questions unanswered yet, there’s clearly an interest for implementing and keeping those social distancing rules in place indefinitely. In fact, after researching personal space in todays’ world I found this interesting; https://definitions.uslegal.com/p/personal-space/ . Yes… people must be inquiring about distancing and their rights to have it.
Back to having personal space…I like having it, especially anywhere lines must form. Public places that are heavily populated by a variety people, such as airports…have a higher risk for illnesses (diseases), as millions continue to travel this Easter Season. I’ve been in a public bathroom, where I’ve seen first-hand, that handwashing appears to be something from the past, as many will walk right out of the stall with their dirty (disgusting really) hands. I’m just looking to protect myself, and seeing this type of behavior already has me more than ‘concerned.’ I’m setting boundaries for myself, and having space (a personal bubble) is important to me, but don’t kid yourself…there are plenty of people lacking respect for personal boundaries; these people are called ‘space invaders’ and I’m sure there’s no shortage of them. Invaders can make you feel uncomfortable, as their intrusive behavior can make one feel…almost uneasy in a sense. No matter how we look at the subject of personal space, it comes with a bit of respect; and that’s all anyone wants. I’m not saying ‘stay 6 feet’ apart for personal space (that’s necessary for the spread of virus), but having some personal space in public is good for everyone’s’ health. Think of your ‘space’ as something ‘healthy ‘you can do for yourself as well as others; after all…what is life without your health?
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Lee Harper says
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